A profound tragedy has rocked the community of Cozad and surrounding Dawson County after a family of four was found dead late Friday night in what law enforcement has identified as a murder-suicide.
According to officials, multiple law enforcement agencies—including the Cozad Police Department, forensics teams, and Denver-based homicide investigators—responded to a call near Johnson Lake in Dawson County late on May 9. Upon arrival, officers discovered the bodies of 42-year-old Jeremy Koch, his wife Bailey Koch, and their two sons, Hudson Koch and Asher Koch.
Authorities confirmed that Jeremy Koch died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. His wife, Bailey, and their sons, Hudson and Asher, were found murdered at the scene.
Community in Shock
The heartbreaking news has sent shockwaves through the Cozad and Holdrege communities. Bailey Koch was a deeply respected special education (SPED) teacher at Holdrege Public Schools, as well as co-owner of Natural Escapes in Cozad. A passionate mental health advocate, she and Jeremy had publicly shared their journey through his lifelong battle with suicidal ideation, launching a platform known as Anchoring Hope for Mental Health: Jeremy & Bailey Koch.
Their story—one of openness, resilience, and faith—was a beacon of support for others struggling with mental health challenges. High school sweethearts who had been together for over 25 years, the Kochs dedicated themselves to helping others feel less alone in their battles.
In a past statement about their work, they wrote:
“Our love story consists of fighting suicidal thoughts and attempts publicly so you know you’re not alone. We fight with you. And our God is stronger than this battle.”
School and Community Response
Cozad Community Schools released a public statement Saturday morning, expressing grief and solidarity:
“Cozad Schools was made aware of a tragic situation that will deeply affect our Cozad community. Our thoughts are with all those impacted during this incredibly difficult time. Cozad Middle School will open at 12:30 today for grieving students and staff. The Cozad High School Graduation ceremony remains scheduled for 4:00 pm today. Seniors should report to the high school at 2:00 pm today. We appreciate the strength and support of our community as we come together in care, compassion, and unity.”
Mental health counselors, crisis response teams, and local clergy have mobilized to support students, teachers, and community members grappling with the loss.
Mental Health Legacy and Unanswered Questions
The deaths of Jeremy, Bailey, Hudson, and Asher Koch leave behind a void in the hearts of many. The couple’s vulnerability and strength in addressing mental health issues had touched countless lives across Nebraska and beyond. Bailey, who also served as a former senior lecturer at the University of Nebraska at Kearney, was admired for her compassion, professionalism, and commitment to inclusion.
While the investigation into the full circumstances remains ongoing, many are left asking how a family so immersed in mental health advocacy could meet such a tragic end. The loss raises critical questions about the depth and unpredictability of mental illness and the need for ongoing support—even for those who seem to be helping others.
Resources and Support
The community is urged to lean on one another during this painful time. Mental health resources are available locally and nationwide:
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Nebraska Family Helpline: 1-888-866-8660
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National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Dial or text 988
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SAMHSA Disaster Distress Helpline: 1-800-985-5990
As neighbors, students, and loved ones mourn the loss of Bailey, Jeremy, Hudson, and Asher, their lives—and their message of hope—will not be forgotten. In the face of incomprehensible sorrow, the Cozad community stands together in grief, remembrance, and healing.
